Monday, November 19, 2012

skincare 101

Since working at a make-up company, I've really tried harder to make sure my skin is being properly taken care of.  From drinking more water and quitting the tanning beds to purchasing products that are right for my skin, I've started a great regimen & I've noticed quite a bit of difference regarding my skin.

A few months ago, trying to balance a new semester, a job, going to the gym while trying to maintain a clean house and spending time with my husband,  I started to stress out (as I'm sure we all do at times!) I started to break out like crazy, and I began purchasing all these regimens and drugstore face washes and products that say they'll do the trick.  I was wrong.  It made it worse, and I began to use benzoyl peroxide like crazy and that only dried out my skin.  I was seriously getting anxiety from my breakouts!  I never break out that bad and so for me, it was traumatizing to say the least.

First of all, I bought some face wipes to make sure I was getting my make-up off completely.  I didn't want any trace of make-up left on my skin so I was sure my pores were able to breathe- every SINGLE pore. ha ha.  I use these face wipes and they are the BEST- they take off all make-up while exfoliating the skin as well. I love them!  They are super cheap, too.


I decided to finally (after many failed attempts) try to let my skin breathe and I stopped using lots of intense products.  I stopped using benzoyl peroxide and salicylic acid and just started washing my face with Cetaphil.  And it actually started to clear up my skin.  I realized through this whole process that I didn't need a lot of intense products to help clear my skin.

I also started drinking more water and making sure to use lots of moisturizer.  I know people freak out when they use moisturizer and have oily skin, but really it's like putting water back into your skin- not oil.  Water is necessary for healthy skin and so moisturizer helps a LOT.  I use CeraVe and it is the best moisturizer I've used thus far.

I eventually decided to go to the dermatologist to see if there was any miracle product I was missing in my life.  He prescribed me Retin-A (and if any of you have ever used it, IT WORKS & IS a miracle product.)  It basically increases the cell turnover rate of your skin, so it clears out pores faster and strips away bacteria from your skin.  I started to use that and didn't see a tremendous result at first, but by the second or third week I was noticing a huge difference.

I also like to use an under eye cream to prevent any signs of wrinkles or aging (even though I'm only twenty and don't have wrinkles yet, prevention is extremely important!)  I love Bare Escentuals Renew and Hydrate eye cream and I've noticed a brighter and more hydrated under eye area- I also know it's helping prevent future wrinkles years down the road.

That's it!  My skin care routine, morning and night.

From using proactive to clean and clear to everything under the sun (and wasting tons of $$$), I finally realized what my skin needed.  I realize everybody's skin is different, but if you have really oily skin like me and nothing seems to be working, try backing off the intense products- for me it irritated my skin and made me break out worse.  Also, try Retin-A!  I was really surprised how well it worked and I won't ever stop using it. My skin now is 10 times better than it was a few months ago, and it feels softer and clearer than it has in months!  Yay for healthy skin!

Hope this helped some of you reading. :) xoxo

Wednesday, November 14, 2012

currently crushing...

Kate Spade Bag /Faux fur snood /Bangle (on sale!) /Bow necklace (on sale + 30% off) /Trench /Boots /Top

I am loving this cross body from Kate Spade.  I'm especially loving it for Paris & think it will be the perfect cross body to bring with me.  
The snood from Asos is gorgeous & looks great with every trench and peacoat I have!  It keeps me extra warm, too.
 I loved this bangle when I saw it on Asos, and thought it was a great everyday reminder... it comes in pink, too!  
This bow necklace is so cute & I can just imagine it with some holiday outfits this winter.
When it comes to trench coats, I love fitted coats that nip in at the waist to give a good shape.  Anything that isn't fitted always looks boxy and big on me.  I  especially love this trench from J.Crew because of it's shape!  I was so happy with the color when I purchased it- it looks so classy and feminine.  
The boots are another fav!  I've been wearing them a lot lately and they are super comfortable and versatile.  
I am loving the peter pan collar trend this season and when I saw this top at J.Crew I fell in love!  I have been wanting this J.Crew top for weeks now & I'm hoping it comes back in my size. Fingers crossed ;) 

Just a few of my current favorites!  xoxo





Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Sequin Love...










Lately, I've been loving anything and everything sequin! it just puts me in the holiday mood... It must be that time of year! I love the last photo- it just proves that sequins can be worn casual, too.

Time to find some sequin beauties to wear this holiday season! 
xoxo

Sunday, November 11, 2012

just the two of us...

Lately, whenever I see a cute baby, I suddenly need one.
Nick and I will be walking somewhere, in the grocery store, at the mall, at church, etc. and I'll see a cute baby and just look at him.  He smiles, rolls his eyes, and knows that really,  I want to wait until I graduate.

And then I'll see another cute baby, and it happens all over again.  And sometimes, I really do want one.

But then it's quiet nights like tonight, when I look at him studying so hard, and working so hard for me to someday support me and eventually our family, and I realize that everything happens in time.

That I don't need to rush, and that it will happen when we feel it's right, and everything is perfectly planned... that our life is perfect, right now, just the two of us.

I am so grateful for such an amazing husband.  I am the luckiest girl in the world!

Thursday, November 8, 2012

Anxious...

Bold lips wearing MAC Rebel & F21 knit scarf ($12!)... staying cozy this fall...
I am getting so anxious for my camera... I guess every good thing is worth waiting for! :)


"The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths.  These people have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern.  Beautiful people do not just happen."
-Elisabeth Kubler-Ross

I know we all have our own secret struggles in life, and sometimes you need a little realization that these trials make us who we are... they make us beautiful.

xoxo

Wednesday, November 7, 2012

Must Have Hair Products...

Many of my friends and family will tell you- hair is seriously my obsession.  I love long, pretty, tousled waves- it is probably my go-to hairstyle.  I used to be a springboard diver, and I quickly learned that chlorine is not your hair's friend.  I began to get super thin hair that looked like seran wrap- it almost looked like doll hair because it was SO shiny and flimsy.  I HATED it! I lost so much hair and my hair looked so damaged.  Before diving I had really healthy, thick hair.  As a baby, I had so much hair my mom could put it in a ponytail before I was one. I missed my healthy hair!  Once I quit diving, (that wasn't the reason I quit :) I noticed a huge change in my hair by using some amazing products to help boost it back to it's once-upon-a-time thickness and length. I wanted to share some of my go-to products and tips for luscious, beautiful hair, especially after it has been damaged!

1. The first thing I STOPPED doing was getting it colored.  I was super consistent with hair color when I was a diver, and my hair would fade in about two weeks so I was constantly getting it colored and highlighted.  That in itself damages your hair A LOT, so I just decided to stop completely.  I actually really love my natural hair and had forgotten the color I even was!  Sometimes I get an itch to change it and get it colored, but I remember that for healthy hair, it is important to keep it natural.

Dry Shampoo.  I recommend this 100%.  I only wash my hair 2x a week and I have noticed a significant difference in the length and health of my hair.  Washing it strips out natural oils that your hair needs to maintain it's shine, beauty and health- dry shampoo will become your best friend!  This is like $3 at drugstores.

Macadamia Natural Oil Deep Repair Mask
I use this about once a week to restore smoothness and shine.  I love this product and it seriously works and does what it says it will do for your hair!  It is the best deep repair conditioner I have ever used. Also, if you just smell it you will never go back.  It smells like Hawaii!  You can purchase this at Ulta for I believe $50.


Hydratherapie Biolage Shampoo
I use this shampoo every day and have been for about a year and a half now.  I really love it and it helps restore the moisture in my hair.  My hair is super duper dry and barely gets oily (maybe like the fifth day it will start getting oily if I haven't washed it) and I really need a product that delivers lots of moisture- this is it!  I love it and the smell is amazing.  I believe it's about $25 at a beauty salon.

Argan Oil
I love this oil, for 1. because it's inexpensive, and for 2. it really does bring shine and softness back into your hair.  I use a tiny bit every day to run through my hair when it's styled and dry, and also every time I get out of the shower. It's an amazing product that I can't live without!  You can purchase it at Sally Beauty for like $10.


Elnett Hairspray
Hands down best hairspray I've ever tried- and I've tried  A LOT!  This hairspray delivers volume and hold without the unmanageability of most hairsprays.  You can literally brush your hair and it will come  out like it was never there.  It holds super well but is so manageable and doesn't make your hair sticky or stiff.  I recommend this product if you're looking for a good hairspray.  You can find it at Wal-mart for about $11.

The products mentioned above are products that I love and use every day.  I really do believe that taking care of your hair starts with 1. a good diet, 2. drinking enough water, 3. proper care and product usage.  I don't believe you need a lot of products for beautiful hair- just products that work and keep your hair looking and feeling beautiful.

xoxo

Tuesday, November 6, 2012

Waiting for Paris...

A few weeks ago, my parents surprised my four siblings, my husband and I and grandmother on a 10 day trip to Paris.  I was so excited I could barely breathe- I started laughing and crying at the same time!  Paris is every fashion lover's dream vacation- I can't help but count down the days until I visit the fashion capitol of the world with my very favorite people.


A chic scarf is an additional element to an otherwise minimalistic outfit



Simple hair and make-up





I can't wait to visit you, Paris!